Remember when you first got married? You couldn’t keep your hands off each other. Every waking moment was another chance for you to get it on. But when you have been married for a while, things start to change. It is very common for the relationship to lose its fizzle. This is usually the case for all married couples. When you have lived with someone for a long period of time, you become comfortable and stop doing the things that you did when your relationship was still very new.
You stop doing the things that made your spouse feel special. Because of this, your relationship will lose its spark and things can start to go a little downhill. But don’t worry, I am going to share with you 5 really simple things you can do to rekindle the spark in your marriage and get things back to the way they use to be.
1. Send Your Spouse A Special Gift
Gifts aren’t just for the ladies, men love them too. By sending your husband or wife a special gift, it tells them you are thinking about them and it makes them feel extra special. And don’t worry, you don’t need to spend a ton of money on this gift. This is one of those instances where it really is the thought that counts. You can write out a simple note telling your spouse how much you love them and then send it to their job. Trust me, this will bring a smile to their face. When they get home they will want to kiss you all over and make sweet love.
2. Act Like Little Kids And Go To The Park
The park is a wonderful place for all couples to go. Its a place where you can just have fun. Jump on the swings and take a swing. Go down the slide or just sit on the merry go round and holds hands and talk. When you just let go and act like kids again, you create a fun atmosphere and it connects you in a special way. When you get home that fun will continue into the bedroom.
3. Go Outside And Play In The Water
This of course can only take place on a nice summer day. Go buy some water guns and go outside and play in the water. This piggybacks on tip number 2. Its all about creating an atmosphere of fun. Get each other soaking wet with water. This will reveal body parts and get you all excited. Of course this excitement will continue on into the bedroom for some hot lovemaking.
4. Give Your Spouse A Nice Massage
A massage is a very sensual act. It might start off innocent, but as you rub and caress your spouse, it can turn very naughty. So grab some massage oil and give your spouse the best massage ever. Tell your spouse to lay down on their stomach so you can rub them down. Then tell them to turn over and continue to rub them down. Trust me, things will start to rise and you will have a good time.
5. Take A Nice Long Walk
Long walks with your sweetie are very romantic. It gives you time to catch up on whats been going on with each other. Sometimes we get so busy with life that we forget to talk to each other. As you walk and hold hands with your spouse, you will feel a very strong emotional connection. 9 times out of 10 that connection will lead to some hot and heavy lovemaking once the kiddies are fast asleep.